- if i like u i'll tell u (but if i dunt like u, i mite pretend i "dunt dislike u" if u know wot i mean. but doesnt mean u can take it as 'i'm ok with u')
- if i'm attracted to u, i'll do wotever to pursue u (if i'm not attracted to u, i'll try to reject u nicely. but if u keep pushing the button, i'll just tell u right in the face to leave me alone. altho there's a high chance that i 'mite' apologise to u for losing the temper sum time later)
- if i'm not over u i'll try everything i cld to ask u back cox u mean the world to me, even if it requires to put down all my dignity (if i'm over u, pls dunt try my limit to keep making conversations with me again. i mite appear as friendly, but i actually dunt wanna be frens with u anymore. altho there are always exceptions, i guess that requires mutual consents n understandings from both parties)
ok, i'm tired of receiving party pics of SC from other ppl's news-feed. so i set up a list where his circle of frens wont be able to view my fotos so i assumed it'll work vice versa (cox sum1 told me it functions that way, all abt give & take on FB :P). next day, the same freaking set of party pics still popped up on my screen! DLS!
altho later on ppl have taught me how to filter out unwanted news-feeds from unrelated ppl. but i still had the strong urge to delete each n every1 of them. i mean, its not like we have ever talked to each other or we are ever going to care abt each others' lives or deaths. c'mon, even my shit doesnt give a shit abt me, why wud they?
so posted up the question in my FB status and 13 person has voiced.
Amy calls for a poll: do u delete ur ex's friends (common friends dunt count) off FB? 2:20pm - 24 Comments
Janet Wu at 2:28pm October 9
I vote "Yes"! You don't need them anyways!!
Egg Lam at 2:33pm October 9
"No", if the relationship is not too bad..
Amy Chin at 2:43pm October 9
i agree with u both, but none of us will make (/has ever made) the initiative to talk to each other anyway, so thats y i asked.
Benjamin Lau at 2:43pm October 9
"Yes". shuold have been the frist thing you did after break up
Amy Chin at 2:48pm October 9
really? u do that too?
Ivie Yeung at 2:53pm October 9
Well...hv to see whether he/she clarifies u as "xx's ex-gf" or "my friend"
Goggo Ko at 2:53pm October 9
no, they are innocent...
Amy Chin at 2:58pm October 9
definitely xx's ex.
Amy Chin at 2:59pm October 9
goggo, its nothing personal. i dunt hate them.
Edmund Yu at 3:14pm October 9
no u shouldn't.. it has nothing to do with them!
Queenie Au at 3:18pm October 9
no~ all of them are on my friends list!! hahaha^^....
Amy Chin at 3:19pm October 9
but do u keep non-friends on ur supposingly frens-only FB?
Amy Chin at 3:20pm October 9
queenie, u have longer history n tighter relationships with them ah ma
Queenie Au at 3:21pm October 9
um.... i still talk to them ga wor... haha^^ ... i suppose we had been so close, just because we cant manage the relationship doesnt mean we cant be frds anymore.... i dunno ga... i dun mind letting them know about my news ...
Queenie Au at 3:23pm October 9
how long do u describe as long sin??... everyone has a different standard, rite?.... even some couples have only been together for a week/ a month, they may still have loads of memories between them wor... everyone has a different story...
Edmund Yu at 3:23pm October 9
then it's all down to your definition of "friend"....
ReChan Van Den Berg at 3:32pm October 9
well, it depends..if those friends are nice, I don't..
Alec Wong at 3:34pm October 9
Oh, I can't answer~
Amy Chin at 3:36pm October 9
definition of frens, i wanted to write down "ppl i often (or at least once in a while) see and talk to"... but wait... i'm not even sure if that really applies to the rest of my 348 frens on FB too!! good point raised!
Amy Chin at 3:50pm October 9
haha sorry for the ones who have voted. i hate bombarding u guys with chain comments. so i guess i shd leave msgs to u individually on the walls instead :P feel free to delete ur comment from this chain if u get annoyed :)
Eric Tsoi at 4:48pm October 9
I m saying NO to this!!
Michelle So at 8:59pm October 9
no. your ex's friends could still be your friends
Winnie Lai at 9:25pm October 9
I say you follow your heart and do what it tells you. Do what makes you feel comfortable.
Fattie Solo at 9:31pm October 9
No to ex, but yes to his/her friends. It is not right to just lose whole circle of friends because of breaking up..
so wot do u think? do u think this is naive? or wud u rather keep them as 'decorations' on ur FB til 10 yrs later they drop by to ur page, view ur fotos and told ur ex from 10 yrs ago "look at her, all wrinkly n saggy now, yet, still unmarried"... is that wot i really want? shd i put 'reputation' on top of my priority list? shd i care abt wot other ppl think than to follow my heart?
